Asian Male/Black Female Relationships | Asian American Poll

ASIAN MALE/ BLACK FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Wednesday, Jan 22, 2025, 06:39:10 AM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most attracts you to African American females?
Their facial features | 36%
Their physique | 36%
Their attitude and personality | 27%
Their education & cultural values | 1%

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with African American females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 2%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 7%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 67%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 24%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most attracts you to Asian males?
Their facial features | 77%
Their physique | 4%
Their attitude and personality | 15%
Their education & cultural values | 4%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 9%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 78%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family and friends. | 13%

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I met this one BF at a restaurant one night. It was tight, I was with another female, an Asian sista, but I saw this one BF, sitting across from me, fine. We exchanged glances, and smiles, catching each others eyes. The AF was my company for the evening but I needed some of that Black booty. So at the end of our meal, I told the AF to meet me in the lobby while I went to the restroom. I headed to the restroom then boom, hung a left to holler at the BF. Yeah, she was sprung, saying that she thought I was beautiful, her words. We chatted and exchanged numbers and I bid her farewell. Next day she is calling me, wanting to kick it. So we go out to dinner and the movies, and everything that I said and did was pure platinum. I had her favorite song on, left the cell at home, was a gentleman, just pure player shiznit. At the end of the night she was all over me, and yup I wanted her too. So we did our thang, released all that tension. We kicked it a couple of more times, and I know if I ever need a late night creep, its on.

I know she wants to be more, but c'mon, no man is ever going to be serious about a female that he beats drawers with the same night. That's the key lesson ladies, don't put out the first time out....if you want something more of course. If you just want to bust a nut, then play on player.
Asian Mack Friday, May 17, 2002 at 03:49:55 (PDT)

Fil.Guy19,
So whats the purpose of your comment?
This is a site for interrace relationships. You are not into them obviously, so why did you come to this forum and make a comment about how you are not into them? I think it was a waste of everyones time to read your message. Why don't you go to a forum where there are others like you; who are always more worried about how everyone else views you. You sound like you want to be what everyone else wants you to be. I feel bad for people like you. You probably claim to have an open mind. Yet, you keep it closed to satisfy your family and peers. You are so young to think this way. It could be that you are young and have not developed your personality quite yet as a man. Or, this could be the very beginning of another (*cliche*)statistic.
Jon C Friday, May 17, 2002 at 02:44:57 (PDT)

Fil. Guy19,

Yea. I guess some of us are just stronger emotionally than others. If you would get a backbone, then you might not be so concerned with your family disowning you. You sound like your so afraid of what your family might think. You don't seem to be true to yourself. Take my advice. Follow your heart always, and be true to yourself.
If your heart involves you getting involved with a BW then go for it. If it doesn't then don't. Always be true to yourself. Being dishonest with yourself will only make you a big loser. Because you can't lie to yourelf and get away with it. Make decisions in your life that come from your own heart, not your family's heart.
japanimation3D( in anime-style) Thursday, May 16, 2002 at 17:48:32 (PDT)

Green:

I posted a message for you before, but I may have had the imposter. Do you work in the film industry? I enjoyed your insights in the past and hope that this forum will return to its intellectual style.

Aggiegirl Thursday, May 16, 2002 at 12:38:03 (PDT)

Love for Enemies

"You have heard that it was said, 'Love your friends, hate your enemies.' But now I tell you: love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, so that you may become the children of your Father in heaven. For he makes his sun to shine on bad and good poeple alike, and gives rain to those who do good and those who do evil."Matt43-45.

We will still keep this "forum" clean and refuse to allow wickedness to interfere. I advise all to "think before replying". If you notice a Jeckyll and Hyde attitude in some ones comments, don't respond. We as Black Women and Asian Men have just as much rights to voice our concerns/opinions on this site as well as the "others". Refuse to be intimidated, stand strong PEOPLE, and refuse to be ran off.

Asian Male's interested in Af.AM females,

What is Love?
Love is patient and kind;it is not jealous or conceited or proud;love is not ill-mannered or selfish or irritable;love does not keep a record of wrongs;love is not happy with evil,but is happy with the truth. Love never gives up; and its faith,hope, and patience never fail.
LOVE IS ETERNAL!!!!1Cor.13:4-8.

Brothers, if you guys would apply this truth to your Queens, you will go far and enjoy life. Just be kind and understanding, never compare your relationship with others. When you get with a Sister, realize the differences between races. Queens were raised to have strong "backbones." We're not overbearing or self-willed, the way society has portrayed us, it's no wonder that you guys are scared to take up the offers. We are just like you guys, experienced in some areas, and need to work on the others.

We like to treat our AM like kings. We like to make sure you're well fed and well "pleased" in the bed. Yes, to pamper ourselves may take a little longer, but that's how God created us, some women of other races can get cute in 10min and some may take longer. Just because the Creator created us with different skin, hair and shape, does that mean that we're unworthy of an masculine Asian mans love.

What's so diffent about the kisses and suckles of a Black women? What's so different about the way we make tender love to our Asian men? We have many different skin colors, facial features, body silouettes,etc...does that disqualify us for love, real wholesome love?

Like Forrest Gump said,"Beautiful Black Women are like a box of chocolates, you never know what ya' gonna'get..".

Brothers, it's your choice of who you wish to love and be with. Beauty, tenderness, and happiness comes in all colors...even Black. From my heart to you guy's, I wish you all the best,

ORIGINAL,12 YRS.AND STILL BLESSED. Thursday, May 16, 2002 at 11:51:24 (PDT)

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