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Asian Mack,
Got to disagree with you Bro."All men AREN'T dogs and all women AREN'T whores".
Your post got a neg. view from me for the simple fact that "your wording" of that encounter leaned more toward lusting, than some-one who just wanted to chill and have a little chit-chat.You were the one that stated "wanted some of that black booty". Your motive was seen right there.
That "story", if it was true at all, was a classic example of how sex struck beings react when their "(w)hores are moaning"-hormones are overactive.
I hope you realize that, one day YOU WILL suffer the consequences of sexing so loosely. Alot of us Sisters here weren't loved and then dumped. Some may have been, some are here giving their input on living with and loving a AM.
I would highly advise any Sister to step back and look at the whole picture if she is approached by an Asian fella who is trying so hard to press her for her info. and talking alot of "yang".
It may just be an Asian Mack clone...he!he!
Peace out fella.
Marge Simpson
Tuesday, May 21, 2002 at 08:24:20 (PDT)
Adversity reveals your true self.
JTUK, be a man......you are a man aren't you, stick to your story. It appears that you are an impressionable person. First you have my back, then a couple of BF make you flip the script? I have a phrase for someone exactly like you, Forever simpin, never pimpin. You are one shadey AM JTUK.
Your first inclination is usually the right one.
I laughed my ass off when I read these responses to me. Are there a bunch of kids in here? Did I hurt your virgin ears? I can't believe my story disgusted so many people. Oh that's right....we live in a Utopian society! I forgot, people never have sex unless they're married, how do I remember that.
I thought I gave the PG rated version, dang got to drop it to G, you need to have parental consent to read my posts.
I'm happy I breathed new life into this discussion. I don't see too many people here sharing stories of interracial relationships and how they formed them. All I hear is how do I go about doing this or that, oh there's a cute AM or BF, what should I do. I've been there and done that, I have no qualms or trepidations about approaching and dating a BF. I'll be more tactful next time, if I share another story.
Some may try to imitate, but I originate.
Asian Mack
Tuesday, May 21, 2002 at 01:18:23 (PDT)
Third Eye;
No. That is not what I am looking for in an AM mate. I can safely say, it is important to be treated with respect. I respect my body. I treat it as my temple. I am the type of woman that refuses to settle for less. I carry myself as a lady, and expect to be treated as a lady. A man who is disrespectful, and insulting will not even get the time of day. I am not stuck on myself or conceited in any way, and I don't put myself above other people. But I do feel that it is important to love and take care of yourself emotionally and spiritually. In a man, he must be classy, He must be intelligent and has respect for women, he must respect his mother and the other women in his family. That is important to me, because it tells alot about him. I don't like generalizations either Third Eye, I completely agree with you on your comment. You say please say it isn't so...
No Third Eye...it isn't so...
Yvonne
Monday, May 20, 2002 at 22:41:49 (PDT)
hello everyone.
well i first visited this site a few weeks ago and..there seems to be a new bad guy.. ASIAN MACK.. well i'm a black female who loves asian men.. and well i'm glad they don't all think the way that he does.. SO FELLAS drop me a line..lol
Destiny dynasty07@aol.com
Monday, May 20, 2002 at 22:04:30 (PDT)
Asian Mack,
Using that statistic to prove your point is pointless because I question its accuracy. I take the stats with a grain of salt and something to keep in mind but not information I should put my complete trust because my reality and experiences state differently.
With the latest second post, you dug a deeper hole for yourself. You definitely are a true player.
"It's an unwritten rule for men, if she's like that with me, she's probably like that with some other men too. She put herself in the hole. "
The above holds true for you too. You are no better than she is. I find it rather interesting how guys like yourself treat women who slept with them so quickly as no good but yet they are just as guilty of the very same thing. I'm sure she is not the first woman you treated as so and more than likely not the last.
Please stop the generalizations. To base your opinions and perceptions on how people behave in the real world on a basic poll on this forum is absurd and doesn't hold enough water. That's your reality and your limited experiences but who is to say this applies to the majority or even everyone in the world.
Let's re-word the following for you... Perhaps, this is what you meant to say..
"...So there you have it, we are shallow visual beings..."
= You are a shallow visual being.
I kept reading excuses, excuses and more excuses for your behavior; trying to justify them when you know you are guilty as charge.
"Do BF want AM for our minds and education, nope, its purely on how we look. "
= You want BF not for our minds and education but purely for looks and nothing more. It's wrong to lump all BFs into this. Of course, physical appearance has some play perhaps in the beginning for some but I'm sure for many women is it not the underlying factor for why they choose to date/marry certain men (meaning the ones who are not shallow). Looks alone is not enough to sustain a relationship.
"True for AM too, but the numbers are more uniform. "
True for AM like yourself but not all.
Some AMs and BFs do not purposely look out or date one another. You hear many stories of AMs or BFs who didn't enter the relationship due to lust alone but rather they had a wonderful friendship and this relationship developed into something more based on that friendship.
"The only reason I can think of right now as to why my post recieved so much
negativity, is that some BF here can relate to it."
If you cannot understand why, it's a shame. Did you really think we will be jumping up and down and congratulating your post as if we are some cheap hos and not true ladies?
"If all men are dogs, then all women are hos. Agree, disagree?"
All men are not dogs but you definitely are one. You have no respect for women, especially BFs. It seems to me your are the wounded dog (your posts are suggesting this to me). Perhaps, some women wounded you pretty badly in the past and your way of getting payback is to treat women as you do now instead of going through the road less travel of figuring out what you were doing wrong in those relationships, learning from the experience, and making changes with yourself and your behavior.
Enlightened BF
Monday, May 20, 2002 at 21:22:24 (PDT)
A. Mack:
"The only reason I can think of right now as to why my post recieved so much negativity, is that some BF here can relate to it."
You have stooped to a new low with that one, my little Mack-a-muffin. You don't realize this, but you have [again] managed to make us out to be "hos". In the previous post, we all got mad because...
1. You made youself sound like a booty-hound
2. You made the girl sound like a tramp & an experiment
3. It seemed as if you were trying to give us a "lesson". Since we are all easy, you have graced us with your dating expertise, ne? Maybe your intentions were good, but you came across rather harsh, cold, & evil. We know that alot of men don't want relationships with femmes who put out on the first date, but your post sounded as if you view ALL BFs this way. Like it was supposed to be a sexual wake up call or something.
I am only 21 so, yes, my record is pretty clean. I have never put out on a first, second, or third date. That's not my style because I am very sensitive when it comes to L'amoure. I don't want to be viewed as a skank nor do I want to be dumped.
Sammi 81
Monday, May 20, 2002 at 16:04:25 (PDT)
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