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ASIAN MALE/ BLACK FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
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I am in an interracial relationship with an AM. He is talking about marriage and children now. I have never been this serious with anyone in my entire life. I have always been someone to run from relationships. I have never wanted to give my heart to someone. Becuause there is the risk of someone taking advantage. But this man is so good to me. I feel like my heart is really falling for him. It is such a scary scary feeling! Sometimes it feels like I am dreaming and trying to wake up. My mother hasn't really met him yet. They are both planning to meet in one week. He is nervouse about meeting her. I think he wonders what her reaction will be. My mom is pretty open minded about interracial realtionships. She was a little shocked when she found out he was chinese. But she was cool with it. It just took some time for her to learn more about him.
He has respect for my culture and I respect his. We both have learned so much from really getting this close emotionally. The physical thing hasn't happened yet, but it will one of these days.
Anyway. My situation is not the most positive in the whole world. But I am sure there are some out there. Why don't you share what you are going through in your interracial relationships. What makes you smile about your sweety? Is it when he says a certain thing to you? When he gives that smile? Lets just get more positive. Are there any AM on here that have had positive experiences from BW besides the physical thing? Don't get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with getting physical. But are there any AM who have really gotten into a BW for more than that part of it? And if so, what makes you feel the way you do? I am really not looking for the negative people who are against BW being with AM. I am really only concerned with the positive peoples insightful responses.
Jennifer B. :o)
Wednesday, May 22, 2002 at 07:00:10 (PDT)
This upset with Asian Mack,
Screw this Asian Mack subject. Its getting old. Can't you see what is happening here? Come on everybody.
Lets all get away from these negative outlooks. Lets get back into the positive aspects of BW/AM relationships. So we didn't like what this AM said or what that AM said. Its not a big deal. These aren't the entire population of AM. Why don't we get over this and move on to positive discussions. This is another attempt to get us stuck in negativity. It is not something we should let shed a bad light on BW and AM. So lets just move on. Forget it. Lets get more positive and stop fighting and arguing about all of this. Yes it was upsetting. This man feels this way, big deal. Hes not every man. There are many good AM out there. I think interracial relationships between us can be a very beautiful, and wonderful thing. Learning from each others cultures is really beautiful. Lets do that instead of getting caught up in all of this bitterness. If you have noticed, this seems to happen often. BW. Lets not let someone so easily try to push our buttons. We should be stronger than that. I know we sometimes tend to be very sensitive women inside. This is the way we are. I know. Especially when someone is saying the wrong things, and it makes us want to explode and school them big time. I am sure alot of the men who say certain "things" know this too.
Lets get beyond this, and have some positive discussions on AM and BW. How about it? Who agrees with me? Does anyone?
Kesha
Wednesday, May 22, 2002 at 00:27:20 (PDT)
Asian Mack has a point everyone seems to ask what AM are looking for and vice versa but very little stories about what people have experienced. Asian Mack told one story and I don't think it was meant to be the story of a typical AM/BF relationship. We shouldn't expect everyone's experience to be a romantic love story but not all of them are booty calls either. So for the those of you who are or have been in BF/AM relationships..how did it happen? Where did you meet?
almond joy
Tuesday, May 21, 2002 at 19:39:39 (PDT)
Asian Mack,
You are very blunt and straight forward. You stick to your words without flinching. Your so outspoken and brave with what you have to say.
You're definitely not a coward ... You sound confident and bold.
I like that alot. It's a turn on.
I admit it. Honestly, I would like to email you
J.
Tuesday, May 21, 2002 at 16:10:03 (PDT)
I'm a Mack, not a player. There is a distinction. A Mack is an overseer of events, already at a elevated echelon, a player is in the mix, trying new things, honing his/her game. But if I was a player, I'd be the tightest player that ever walked the Earth.
Enlightened BF,
This poll is fairly simple, not too many options, so therefore there is less room for inaccuarcy and mistakes. Sure there is a grey area where some people, probably yourself, fall into.
It's more precise than approximate.
I'm an awful person aren't I. Somebody even called me a "bad guy," the antagonist in the world of AM-BF relations. Perhaps my wording is questionable, but for sure my intent is not "evil, and cold."
Is Asian Mack a dog? Bow Wow! I possess many titles, and that my dear is not one of them.
Asian Mack is a college scholar, but also possess' street knowledge. I'm a rarity. I don't have to lie, that's for weak-minded people. If you ever met me on the daily grind, I know you would be awe struck. Body and stature of a Greek God, worldly mind, and a heart to match. Even if you fail to perceive it here. People mistake my boldness for bluntness. Water off a ducks back.
Am I one to turn down the advances of a beautiful Black Woman, hell no. Its a fact, men are more visual, and its our nature to first be moved visually.
I have nothing but respect for people who survive in this world. I'm not perfect, and anybody that says they are is the most flawed.
Do you want to know the number one rule that I abide by, my mantra, my premise, my ethics, my motto(for the layman): the best approach anybody can have is being honest.
I am amazed at how I could go from being praised for being bold, to getting stoned for my experience.
I don't claim to know everything, and I learn something new everyday. Reading these responses adds to my knowledge, and makes myself even better.
No apologies and no regrets.
Asian Mack
Tuesday, May 21, 2002 at 14:29:28 (PDT)
Yvonne, thank you so much for saying it isn't so. I am so relieved. Whoo!
I really don't understand what class as far as how people are living and making a certain amount of money has to do with love and respect. Maybe this is why many people can't find the love that they want.
Asian mack I don't know whether you are to be taken seriously or to be laughed at. I guess you have clearly stated what kind of guy you are.
Third Eye
Tuesday, May 21, 2002 at 12:46:19 (PDT)
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