Asian Male/Black Female Relationships | Asian American Poll

ASIAN MALE/ BLACK FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Wednesday, Jan 22, 2025, 06:39:10 AM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most attracts you to African American females?
Their facial features | 36%
Their physique | 36%
Their attitude and personality | 27%
Their education & cultural values | 1%

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with African American females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 2%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 7%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 67%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 24%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most attracts you to Asian males?
Their facial features | 77%
Their physique | 4%
Their attitude and personality | 15%
Their education & cultural values | 4%

Assuming you are an African American female, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 9%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 78%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family and friends. | 13%

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i agree with kesha, this asian mack is here only for attention and you are giving it to him. just ignore him and get back on track for positive aspects.
lilli Thursday, May 23, 2002 at 09:48:46 (PDT)

Hahaha!
Asian Mack comments obviously made these ladies nipples get hard! Thats probably the real reaon why they are so mad! Hahaha!
Man! You women take things too serious. Loosen up a bit ladies. If we appreciate a woman's body, there is nothing wrong with that. You women do the same thing when it comes to us. 'oh hes so cute' 'oh hes so fine'.
Its the same thing when you think about it. Its a physical thing. Some men like a woman's body. Whats wrong with that? Nothing at all.

TK (NYC) Thursday, May 23, 2002 at 06:59:41 (PDT)

Kesha＜

I agree.
Angelique Wednesday, May 22, 2002 at 21:52:25 (PDT)

Great forum. First of all, much love to everyone. I echo your sentiment of having "nothing but respect for people who survive in this world," Asian Mack. As to the topic, I'm an AM who has dated Asian, Caucasian, and Latina females in the past. This came about--looking back on it--surprisingly naturally growing up in southern California. Though I'm not a player, I'm competent, lets just say. Recently, an especially heart-achingly beautiful woman who happens to be African-American, has started to express an interest in me.

The thing that throws me is that I've started fantasizing about marrying this person, which is a feeling that is shockingly new to me, especially for its suddenness. Yet I've held back from asking her out because of various fears (fobbish parents, possible backlash from African-American males, other bigots, and most probably the fear of marriage itself--to be presumptuous). Anyways, I just wanted to express these frustrations, wondering if anybody else has had to deal with them. Nyiesha, if you happen to stumble across this, I LOVE YOU.

(by the way, why can't we vote for more than 1 attribute? :)
A Fool In Love Wednesday, May 22, 2002 at 15:19:10 (PDT)

"Are there any AM on here that have had positive experiences from BW besides the physical thing?...But are there any AM who have really gotten into a BW for more than that part of it? And if so, what makes you feel the way you do?"

I entered into a permanent relationship with my African American wife, because she and I had a positive connection from the start as friends: she's a positive, friendly, upfront, communicative, bright, empathetic, and kind person. I had been in boyfriend-girlfriend relationships with Asian and Caucasian women before our marriage (and each person had been special with positive characteristics), but she had the most complete package of positive, interesting qualities for me, and, more importantly, she and I complement each other congruently.

I am comfortable in the relationship, she and I are both growing in it everyday, and, most of all, we enjoy each other's company.
An Asian Male With An African American Wife Wednesday, May 22, 2002 at 10:30:11 (PDT)

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