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I know that this is a little off topic and that you weren't discussing it and I apologize for bringing it up again, but I was just looking at the comments that were posted a little while back and I felt that I just had to respond to No Spring Chicken's racist comments about Asian Men. She felt that there was no real difference between Asian Men and other races of men and made a very negative, nasty racist comment about Asian Men in the end. I was thinking a little bit about what she said and after much thought and after mulling it over I decided to respond to her. After all, I thought that her calling us "No Spring Chickens" in the end was kind of nasty and unfair and I noticed some flaws in her thinking and line of reasoning. So, without further delay, here are some good reasons why I think Latinas could find Asian Men attractive and in which we are not like the other races. Asian Men are not as aggressive, arrogant, criminal, explosive, dominating, violent, vengeful, cocky, showboaty, promiscuous, womanizing, lazy, or as gay as other men. Asian Men rarely commit crimes, they rarely get in trouble with the police, they rarely break the law. They also rarely have mental problems, or substance abuse problems, such as alcoholism, or drugs--either buying or selling--as much as other races of men. Most Asian Men do well in mental or academic situations and most Asian Men graduate from High School and college and become working professionals like doctors, or engineers, or technicians of some kind, and many of them even get nice jobs and even become yuppies and buy nice houses and decent cars that most people would be happy to driv--like Hondas, Toyotas, and Lexuses. Asian Men are also for the most part hardworking and don't complain very much--even about racism, as much as most other races of men, who are usually far less tolerant of racism and far less forgiving of it and can sometimes get extremely violent and extremely destructive and seek revenge for it. Asian Men are not like that, more of them "take it like a man", and I count that as a strength, and not as a weakness, since people who do not do that and are extremely intolerant of other people's faults and are vengeful are potentially destructive to the people around them since everybody makes mistakes and has faults, and without some sort of tolerance and forgiveness of sins in this world, the world would be a lot more dangerous place. Asian Men also do not do not complain as much as other races of men about the slightest offense done to them, whether real or perceived. Asian Men are also more closed-mouthed than other races of men, don't talk as much and are not as loud, brash, rude, or obnoxious, and as I said before, they are more tolerant other people's sins against them. More of them are of the strong and silent type, and they work hard and succeed while not having as many handouts such as social programs from the government or from large corporations in order to "get ahead" and to give them a "leg up" in society based solely on racial preferences because of the color of their skin. Asians oftentimes, I have noticed, are not the beneficiary of those programs, (as I'm sure you're happy about de2332000, seeing as how you're so against Asian Men). Asian Men are also more self-reliant, more self-made, and more independent than other races of men especially seeing as how so many people, (like you de2332000), are so against them, and yet still a lot of them, amazingly enough, manage to succeed and be successful in life financially. They are also for the most part more family-oriented and more loyal than other races of men to their families, relatives, and their spouses and do not commit adultery as much. Most Asian Men do not treat women as badly as other races of men. There are very few Asian Male womanizers or player types or Asian babies born out of wedlock to single mother households in Asian culture--not even in Asian-American culture--that rarely ever happens. Asian Men are also not as promiscuous as other races of men, they do not have as many one-night stands as other races of men, or use and abuse women as much, not even Asian Women. That is not because they are less sexual, or even because they are more effeminate or more gay than other races of men. If you honestly look around in American society, where homosexuality is rampant, there are very few gay Asians in American society, whether Asian Males or Asian Females, and not just because they are fewer in population than the other races. Among Asian-Americans, homosexuality is almost unheard of. Asian Men are less promiscuous--note I said less PROMISCUOUS and not less sexual--than other races of men, because more of them are the more decent type and the family-oriented type. They do not transmit any sexually-transmitted diseases to women like men of other races have been known to do, even knowing that they had it, and most Asian Men are good fathers who support their children when they are born, both financially and emotionally, and do not run away from their girlfriends, like what you see on talk shows, when their girlfriends get pregnant. Most Asian Men are also very committed to their partners when they are married, as evidenced by the fact there there is a very low divorce rate in Asian culture, the lowest out of all of the races in America, even among Asian-Americans, who are more westernized. Most Asian Men are also very polite, clean-cut, clean, and gentlemenly, which again, I actually count as a plus and not as a weakness, and most Asian Men are nice guys. Few of them develop very bizarre or weird off-center personalities or attitude problems in life, and most of them live decent upstanding lives without becoming the type of people that end up on the Jerry Springer show. So despite what you say, Asian Men do have some advantages over other races of men, as evidenced by the fact that there are so few Asian Men in jail and so few Asian Men who are known for hurting other people, and that is not just because Asians are lower in population in America than the other races either. That is because Asian Men are not usually the predatory, dominating, aggressive, or destructive type, which in my book, is also a plus for them. Most Asian Men do not hurt women and would not hurt women, or any other type or kind of people for that matter either, as there are almost no cases in the U.S. of Asian Male spousal abuse or domestic violence or gang rapes or Asian Male rapists of any kind, whether towards other races of women, or towards Asian Women. And many Asian Men have better qualities about them which are not always easily seen in plain sight and which lie hidden underneath the surface. The qualities that I mentioned before are what differentiate Asian Men from the rest of the men of other races. And I guarantee you that if you seriously look and if you seriously take the time to see for yourself whether or not the things that I've said are true or not, and are objective and are honest with yourself and make a genuine and sincere attempt to seek the truth, no matter how contrary to your versions of reality it is, and very importantly, that you take the time to look underneath the surface, you will see that most of what I said about Asian Men is true.
And while I am not saying that all of these things that I've said about Asian Men are true for every Asian Man and I am also not trying to say that Asian Males are better than anyone else because then I would just be as guilty as YOU saying that they are LESS than any other race by calling them "Spring Chickens". I just think that if you are going to generalize and judge them and so then conclude that they are inferior to everyone else as you implied, that in that case you should at least look at more than just surface appearances and look at what's underneath the surface as well and so then when you judge can you can come up with the RIGHT generalizations and judgments and then come up with a more accurate, fair, balanced, and complete picture of the situation instead of calling us what you did. After all, if you really believe that Asians are unequal to the other races, then you have to understand that we don't exactly ACT like the other races either and that although I don't think we are better than them, we are certainly not alike in some respects, and not "Spring Chickens" either. P.S.--If you are still reading this forum, as someone else already mentioned, please understand that the racism that you hearing about how some Asian families and the resistance that they have about their son marrying a daughter from another race the are mostly from first-generation immigrant families who are far less Americanized and are far more against interracial relationships than their children are. And added to that fact, the racism that you have been reading about is the same type of racism that American families of almost all the other races feel when their daughters want to marry a first-generation Asian Male immigrant who has migrated to this country from another country, or even many times still today, still feel when their daughters say that they want to marry an Asian-American Male even if he was born in this country. So, I don't think that the Asian families that you are hearing about are really any guiltier than the families that I just mentioned either. I can assure you, as I'm sure many of the other Asian Males on this forum can, that later generations of Asian families are far less resistant to their sons and daughters marrying someone of another race and are far less hostile to it and them. And so I applaud the couples who are on this forum who have to courage to meet, fall in love, and engage in a healthy relationship if it is one in which they know will benefit both spiritually, mentally, and physically even if the person is of another skin color despite what their family, friends, or relatives might say.
Yes, No Spring Chicken
Saturday, March 09, 2002 at 06:44:33 (PST)
Latina Mexican women know how to treat a man right. They are not overly passive, but they know how to respect a man's natural space (unlike many white, black and Asian women). My honey enjoys cooking for me when I come home. She is learning Chinese dishes from my mom. They have no weight watchers mentality. Eating good food is central in both her Mexican and my Chinese tradition. Anything she cooks for me, as long as it is hot and hearty is all I can ask for. When I feel tired, she is there at home for me. The bucket of warm water for my sore toes. The massaging she gives me of every back ache and pain. What more can I ask for?
Not to mention that sex is the most enjoyable with them. They are the only race of girls who really enjoys sex and would let her man know by her sound of contentment and excitement. To see a beautiful face and body (with curves and endowed upper body) is like being in heaven.
I will never trade this love for anything.
real men love real women
Monday, March 04, 2002 at 22:46:15 (PST)
Hellooo
Hey I just came back from Brasil, one of those countries I always wanted to visit. Brasilan chicks are soooo friendly and hooked up few times. They come in all different shades and ethnicity and they are easier to approach then lets say American or asian girls. I keep in touch with my Brasilan babe name "Flaviana." I'm definately going back again this year and with the strong US dollar you can have a great time.
Oh, Brazil also have a large East Asian community, especially Japanese Brazilans.
Rio Rocks!!
Monday, March 04, 2002 at 17:35:02 (PST)
I once visited Peru. There are Chinese, Japanese and some Koreans there. The Chinese there are now largely a mextizo community because many of its early migrants were men who did not bring over wives and so they married local women. The Japanese and Koreans are still largely clinging on to their ethnic culture and race.
In Mexico, I have also visited Mexicali where I found hundreds of Chinese restaurants specializing in cuisine that is Cantonese-Mexican hybrid. The owners are also of Chinese/Mexican descent but look Spanish-Mextizo. The only thing Chinese about them was that they had Chinese surnames and can hold a wok.
The Chinese in the Latin Americas were allowed to assimilate and intermarry, unlike in the USA.
Papi Chulo
Sunday, March 03, 2002 at 21:44:58 (PST)
An Ecuadorian girl told me that she has asian ancestors, I was like "whoa," it might or might not be true but it was the first time i've ever heard that. Pretty cool.
Lordt78
Friday, March 01, 2002 at 18:40:48 (PST)
Hey hey now,
I've been to Miami and the Cuban chicks there were very friendly to me. I don't think we should dump the Cubans in with Puerto Ricans and Dominicians. Besides they hate each other, Cubans say P.R's are embarrassing.
Most Cuban Americans who immigrated to the U.S during the 60's were successful white middle class Cubans who made what Miami is today. Its the wave that came during the 80's who were the criminals of Cuba Fidel Castro sent out on their rafts.
Cohibas
Wednesday, February 27, 2002 at 17:31:25 (PST)
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