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ASIAN MALE/ LATINA RELATIONSHIPS
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I am part mexican and columbian. Many people tell me I look asian. I think its sort of funny! LOL!I take it as a complement. Asian people are real attractive people. I admire them too.
pretty smile :)
Tuesday, May 28, 2002 at 07:27:22 (PDT)
When it comes to AMs,
In the military I did alot of travel
There are more of north korean AMs and japanese ones that are handsome with the perfect faces and bodies. I have seen a few of south korean ones too. Not as many though.
But the north koreans and japaneses ones are the best feature I think. The little baby faces ones are the cutest. I don't like any man if his face is way too wide and big/long, or too smashy and tiny like a mouse either. It is bad luck to have heads like that.
But I am more into the north koreans baby faces and japaneses. Most of those kinds are the best!.
~MoReNa~(s.cali)
Tuesday, May 28, 2002 at 04:34:34 (PDT)
going crazy for them,
I feel the same way you do about likes. I am more attracted to AM that have Jason Scott Lee's looks. Almost like a Hapa look. The round proportionate little face, soft and sexy full lips and pretty tannish,smooth skin color. He is so fine as hell! I think guyz that look like him are the most sexiest in the whole world!!! My girlfriendz and I used to watch his movies so many timez! I usually go for the tan and fine AM with small delicate faces.
Cat Eyes
Monday, May 27, 2002 at 22:46:31 (PDT)
Going Crazy for them,
Okay. Come on!
Don't speak for "most" Asian men. I think your just speaking of your own personal preferences. I doubt if you know "MOST" of the population of asian, white, and blacks on this planet. I think Salma Hayek and Penelope Cruz are attractive. They are 'okay'. I have heard those two mentioned on this poll so many many times. Its like these are the only two latinas you guys know of. But they are not the most attractive women in my opinion. I happen to be more attracted to women who look like the beautiful singer 'Natalia', that sings the Bamboleo song. La India is really incredibly beautiful in my eyes. I think Selena was really beautiful too. Apollonia Kotera was hot. These women to me are way more attractive than Salma and Penelope. This is just my opinion. I think its wrong for you to say this how most of us feel. You are projecting an image to latinas that these two women are what "MOST" of us have as a standard of beauty/when it comes to latinas. Don't speak for me and everyone else,just speak for yourself. I hate when some asian guys try to make it seem like we all think 'this way' or 'that way'. Its really lame and old fashioned. Its also embarrassing. Speak for yourself from now on. Stop putting us all in your categories when it comes to your own personal feelings.
T.H.Lien,Joey etc...and the history posting guys,
Whats with the long drawn out history lessons? Is that all the imput you guys have? Why are you trying to educate Latinas about their own history and backgrounds? I don't think the latinas are very impressed with that. Why would they be impressed with someone who is a walking history class? I wouldn't want someone trying to educate me on the history of vietnam. I already know everything there is to know about the history of my country and its culture. Why would I need someone who is not even from my country telling me this and that about my ancestors and homeland? Latinas, how do you feel about that? Doesn't that the least bit annoy you? I know it would annoy me? Does it impress you at all reading it? Guys who are posting these history 101 comments/whats up with that? Don't you realize how lame and crazy that is? Get a clue.
H.Ngo
Monday, May 27, 2002 at 21:27:24 (PDT)
OK, I have been with Asian girls in the past. It seems very routine and they probably dated me because we knew through friends.
The problem is that they get bored when we only go out to Chinese places and restaurants.
The girl I am going out with now is a Hispanic woman. She loves Chinese food and never gets bored of it. I take her to places where there are a lot of Chinese and she doesn't seem to mind.
I just feel more excited and stimulated when I am going out with this Latina chick. She brings out the fun in me, something that has never happened before. Hey, even when I argue with this girl, it is over soon because we do explaining to each other. But, those Chinese girls I went with, would argue and keep everything inside.
I keep thinking if this would last and if I can marry a girl I am not familiar with? But, what matters now is my hormones and how I feel.
I don't want to marry someone because they look like me. I want to marry for love, fun and happiness. I want my future kids to feel it too.
Simply, those Asian girls I went out with wanted more in life. The Mexican princess I am with now, likes me for who I am and enjoys learning every bit of my culture.
adios
Monday, May 27, 2002 at 21:18:44 (PDT)
My uncle (actually he is not much older than me) just married a Mexican woman (she calls herself a Chicana).
The 2 are different in terms of family background, education and tastes. But, I see that they have love for each other. She has much to learn from him and vice versa.
My uncle (he and I are like good buddies) told me that he has previously dated Asian and even white girls. But, with this Mexican girl, he felt like a real man. He felt that he was in control.
I am an egalitarian, but sometimes there are things between a man and a woman that cannot be shared equally. Some of it is simply biological.
For example, Latin girls I noticed will love and nurture their children in ways that Asian-American and white females can't do. I once saw a Chinese guy at a restaurant with his Latina wife and infant daughter. His wife used her own hands to feed bits of rice into the little girl's mouth. I have never seen white or Asian women do that to their kids.
I have heard some Asian women say they will not breast feed their kids because it does not feel good. But, I once asked this Latina girl if she had a baby, would she feed it her own milk? She said that is the right and necessary thing for a mother to do. She said she has seen her own mom do it with her little siblings and said her mom enjoys the feeling of it.
I guess Latina women make us guys feel like real men and they are certainly everything that defines a real woman.
I want a real woman
Monday, May 27, 2002 at 21:08:41 (PDT)
T.H. Lien,
It all depends on what generation you are coming from.
There literally no more 3rd generations of Chinese in Mexico or Cuba. Many simply acculturated, assimilated and amalgamated into the local populace. People by that generation would not really want to feel different from the others. They have no connection with China or the Chinese, save for their features and names. Actually many, Chinese-Latinos are already mixed by the 2nd generation, so this further propels their assimilation.
In the USA, you find stark contrasts. You will find a lot of Asian Americans who are in their 3rd, 4th or 5th generations. It is not necessarily by choice, but because of the fact that race still permeates the society at large in the USA.
I am sure it is the same with the Chinese diaspora in Southeast Asia. If you are not welcome or allowed to assimilate, then you retain your identity. But, if the host society allows you to mix with them and assimilate, you take every opportunity to do so. If not by the 2nd, then for sure by the 3rd and ensuing generations.
In the USA, we only see partial assimilation of the Asian Americans (most notably, assimilation of the Asian females and not the Asian males).
Joey
Monday, May 27, 2002 at 13:56:04 (PDT)
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