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ASIAN MALE/ LATINA RELATIONSHIPS
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First of all I don't like to see Asian Men with Latinas as being in interracial relationships.
Many of the Mexican and El Salvadorean women I see have something Asian in them. They look like Hapa (Eurasian)girls.
The kids of Asian fathers and Latina mothers are very beautiful. Even when they come out looking more Asian, they still have good features.
Just look at the Mexican singer, Ana Gabriel. She is of mixed Chinese-Mexican descent (1/4 Chinese). She is very delicious looking.
I swear that it is only the Mexican women who makes my mind go lost whenever I see a fine one. From head to toe, there is not one single thing to disapprove of.
I love em' all
Saturday, June 08, 2002 at 21:20:52 (PDT)
Another New Yorker,
Please don't generalize for the Latinas where you live with, to all the Latina firme hyenas out there.
Come check out L.A. You will meet some of the most wonderful Latina girls ever.
Now, one poster once mentioned the differences between Puerto Rican and Mexican women?
I don't know about Puerto Rican women, but it seems like they are more influenced by the Carribean weather and happy-go cultures there. I know they love dancing and having fun.
Mexican women like to have fun too, but they are more realistic about life. They care more about status than the black and Puerto Rican girls.
Actually, many of the Mexican, Guatemalan and El Salvadorean moms actually encourage their daughters to go with Chino (their word for "Asian") guys. I know this because the girl I am with now, is very attached to her mom. And, her mom would be in contact with me and tell me what her daughter tells her and what days I can take her out. The girl lives only with her mom and I feel comfortable going over to their home always.
Mexican food is not too different from Chinese. A lot of rice, beans, chicken and green vegetables. They don't eat that much beef as we think.
don't hate on my Latinas
Saturday, June 08, 2002 at 20:22:44 (PDT)
Solana,
You shouldn't worry about trying to be in a serious relationship right now. I am not worried. I have my whole life ahead of me. I like having fun with men. I don't see myself giving it all up to one guy. There are way too many beautiful men out there to just have one. Way too many fishes in the sea. Why have one when you can have as many as you want? I don't have any kids and I am in college. I have a nice job and car. I have my cat Bianca (shes my babygirl!!!) and my nice apartment. I don't need to be married or serious right now. Its okay to have fun and be single. Just live your life and don't worry what your folks think.
glossyglitter
Saturday, June 08, 2002 at 19:05:44 (PDT)
I may be mistaken but correct me if I am wrong.
It seems to me that all the young beautiful Latinas I see with Asian and black guys, are dating the tall and good looking ones. On the otherhand, the white girls I see with Asian men, are sometimes those who are nerdy but rich.
The impression I seem to be getting is that Latina women go more for looks, even though on general they seem to be more receptive of Asian men than white women.
Anyways, for those Asian brothers complaining of not getting Latina women to give them the time of day. You can be assured that they are much less to do so with black guys as well, or even white boys for that matter.
Latino people have more pride than Asian women. Their women do not see their own men like the way our Asian sisters see us.
And, yes, some are afraid to date/marry out of their culture because everyone knows that when your daughter marries out, she will not be as close to her own family if say, she had married with someone of her own.
I have a Persian sister-in-law, and she admits that her other sisters who married Iranian guys have it easier with her parents (as if they had known each other for years). But, she and her other sister (who married a white guy), do not have it as close. It's not because my brother is a Chinese guy, but because he just cannot identify in the same manner.
I guess that is how it is with some Latinas too. But, there are some Latinas who told me that they would not want to date their own men or black men because they are tired of "player" and "deadbeat dad" types. Many Latinas would love to be with white and Asian guys (esp. Asian non-player types).
Just keep looking and I am sure you will find the right and lucky one!
just my experiences
Saturday, June 08, 2002 at 12:48:05 (PDT)
DuLce,
I think you are in a perfect position to find an AM, as long as your AF friends know a few AMs.
Surely you can get acquaintances from your freinds and see how a possible relationship may develope.
one hot sexy latina,
if this AM continued to ignore you even after you gave him an invitation to chat to you, he must only like AFs. But if he was like any of the guys on this forum, he would have went up and chat to you.
Either way he was an idiot and wasted his chance. Its his loss and some other lucky AMs gain.
J6
Saturday, June 08, 2002 at 12:01:39 (PDT)
Rican,
I am not getting worked up. I am just sick people like Yadira who have to be ashamed of part of their history. My skin,hair and eyes are very trigueno. But you don't see me running around announcing to people that I have only castillian and taino blood. There is african blood somewhere way down the line in my history. And why would she even call darker skin hispanic people BLACK people? They are morenito. Yadira reminds me of that old sayin "Y Tu Abuelita Donde Esta". I don't have any en mi familia either Yadira. I only have puerto rican people in mine.
She maybe has a problem with morenito. Who cares. I have lived in Nueva York and other places. I notice puertorriquenos closer outside than we are on the island. Always the Yadiras'.
I am not going to talk anymore about THIS, because it is a waste of time. The REAL reason for me finding this site in the first place has nothing to do with all of that. I have a husband who is chinese american. We are expecting a baby girl. Maybe that is why I am a little emotional the pregant hormones are really kickin in! This site got my attention.
Juana (Arecibo,PR)
Saturday, June 08, 2002 at 06:18:59 (PDT)
For the Asian brothers who complain of getting rejected by LF.
Please hang in there. The problem may not be you or that you are Asian.
For one thing, why would you want to look for a beautiful Latina girl in a bar or club? The girls who frequent those places are no good. They like "bad boys." Asian guys don't match up in their twisted version of what being a "real man" is all about.
Or, maybe those girls you hit on already going out with someone else. How did you approach them and what did you say? Your vibes determine a lot of how girls perceive you. Be aggressive, but don't appear too desperate. Don't act too timid in front of them either. Just be your same self and observe her body language. Start off with small talk and SMILE always.
If you go to college or the malls, these are the best places to hang out and spot some nice Latino chicks. They are more likely to be receptive to Asian guys in my opinion.
just be yourself and don't give up!
Saturday, June 08, 2002 at 00:01:47 (PDT)
Another New Yorker:
You're in the wrong state. You won't find that problem in CA. There are lots of Latinas here (Mexican, Central-American) who are refined, beautiful, and intelligent. They come from a culture that is very ladylike. That gives them the advantage over many other women.
J Kim
Friday, June 07, 2002 at 18:04:29 (PDT)
Village idiot-
It sounds like those girls at the club were being straight out stuckup. Especially if you approached them, and they just ignored you like that. At least there was one nice girl you danced with. Those other girls were not worth your time anyways, with the way they were treating you.
Slow pain- that is really sad. I can't believe she let her friends be the judge of who she should be with. I think she was being a real coward. Why couldn't she just follow her heart? Alot of people don't just follow their hearts. They are too worried and concerned what other peole think about them. People like that will never be truly happy in their life. Because they are always passing up wonderful opportunity.
Another New Yorker-you have had some bad experiences. I have met alot of very rude Japanese men on the island. When I left Hawaii, it left a very sour taste in my mouth for Japanese men and even some of the women. Alot of them would shove and push when in a crowd of people. Sometimes they had such nasty mean, and arrogant behavior it became an everyday thing. When I came here to the mainland I saw they were not all like the men on the island. I just had some bad experiences with a certain "group attitude" living back home. I realize now that I was wrong. That all Japanese people are not arrogant and rude. There are some out there who are very sweet and kind people. I know this because being in the mainland now, I have met plenty of decent ones. There are always gonna be the bad apples and the good ones out there.
Maricruz
Friday, June 07, 2002 at 17:50:27 (PDT)
Slow pain,
time for a rational comment.Latins are more similar to us Asians than whites are. Our skin colors are not that different from each other.Latin and Asian temper/ament are close to each other. Latins have even an advantage in comparison with e.g. Japanese,i.e. they've more expression.
rational AM
Friday, June 07, 2002 at 17:35:25 (PDT)
"I will always think of her until I find someone who can treat me the same way as she did or better."
oh boy, you're in for a wake up call. one of the cardinal rules of dating is to never compare girls with those you've dated in the past. you should be treated with respect and vice versa treat her with repsect, but to compare girls is not only rude but unrealistic and good luck waiting to find somebody else like her.
villageidiot
Friday, June 07, 2002 at 12:58:21 (PDT)
another new yorker/
Yes, New York doesn't have the greatest reputation for women anyway. I have heard alot about it from men who lived there. There are alot of ghetto attitudes there. Try moving someplace else sweetie. Open up your options more. At least some travel. Theres some decent ones out there. Trust me. You'll find one to break the mold one day I hope :)
villageidiot/
LOL! Sorry for that. Maybe you will run into her again next time. I hope so. If you do please tell me how it went!
So you like dancing! Me too! Which is your favorite? I love dancing the merengue the most of all!!! Especially Fulanitos! They are the best.
ARACELI
Friday, June 07, 2002 at 11:36:24 (PDT)
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