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I knew a couple of my Asian friends had to actually "steal or win over" Latina chicks. Because many of them had already been seeing other Latino guys at the time that my friends tried to hit on them and ask them out.
There is nothing wrong with it. If those girls really trust and love those guys, they would not have given my Asian friends the chances.
They later said that too many Latino guys are cheating and asking out any girl they see, that they have seen too much. Any guy who has not dated them more than a month is not a real boyfriend yet.
I don't know the specifics of their situation. But, you got to sometimes understand the situation these girls are coming from. They are very selective and sensitive. If they find a better and more honest man, they will jump ship. There is nothing wrong with that. These women deserve better.
Often, it is triggered and exacerbated when their Latino men get jealous and violent. It makes these women want to leave sooner to someone who is more caring, sensitive and understanding.
Remember: the more you hate and forbid, the more that the (mija) girl will like the one you hate and try the forbidden fruit to see what is it and why is it that you hate that "Chinito" man so much? You see, all the Chinese man need to do is ask her why her family hating on him so much? She will feel bad about it and want to go more with him. I know it because it happened to me. Yes.
So, take it easy dude.
challe homes
Sunday, June 16, 2002 at 02:23:59 (PDT)
And Puerto Rican women look better than Mexican women. I should know I am half black and half Puerto Rican. If you don't like it too bad!
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Saturday, June 15, 2002 at 13:51:04 (PDT)
H.Ngo-
Amen bro. Now. On to other stuff like, how to hook up with a fine little Cubana. I just moved here to Ft.Lauderdale, and would like to know how to hook up with the latinas here. I am not shy. But I do not know where the latinas hang out. I am not really into the club scene either. Does anyone know any beaches or anything? Or any resteraunts in the area? I know it sounds crazy. But I just moved here and don't really know places around. If anyone can direct me, I would really be most grateful.
Brent
Saturday, June 15, 2002 at 09:23:12 (PDT)
Sad girl,
its a real shame your novio decided to break up with you over such a little thing.
did you ask him how he would react to you cutting your hair prior to cutting it?
i can see why he would be in love with you hair [beautiful long latina hair, who wouldnt]. but thats a shallow reason to be with you.
you should have tied up the hair and then cut it off, he could have kept it then! :-D j/k
i think i would only give off that type of reaction if you completely cut off your hair!
well you've gotten the issue off of your chest now and can move onto something better now. you've also taught me the meaning of a few spanish words, thanx! :-)
J6
Saturday, June 15, 2002 at 09:12:33 (PDT)
To: . {it is a "period" right?}
Please do not generalize. Not all asians are arrogant or control freak
pseudo nazis'. re: "Its all about that
stuck up attitude many AM have. Not all , but most ". From my experience
most arrogant people are usually insecure or deficient in some part of their lives...this includes ALL races and nationalities not just AM. I agree with you some AM are haughty ,racist or obnoxious BUT NOT THE MAJORITY.
re: "I have thought some AM were attractive. But not many at all." It appears from my {humble} perception that you don't really find ANY redeeming qualities in asian males and find them unattractive in most categories. To bad. Like you said: "To each his own" .
peace
latina loving korean hombre
Saturday, June 15, 2002 at 01:23:54 (PDT)
Yes it's true that there are some Latino families who would give pressure for their daughters to stay within their own group.
I had a Chinese friend who married a Mexican girl 6 years ago. She got disowned by her parents. My young friend is a respectable man with great love and money. Her parents were not wealthy and racist if you ask me (they live in the eastside of LA). After 3 kids, they still have not spoken to her nor touched the babies. Actually I have taught 2 of them at the school I work at as a teacher. When you look at this brother and sister, you can't hate them. They are so cute and beautiful and charming. Yet, they are not dumb. They must be wondering where, what and who their other grandparents are? You guys be the judge here.
Someone mentioned Chinese and Asian guys as womanizers.
Many wish they can! Hahaha, just joking. Asian guys get dissed by many women left and right that they will treat any woman they are with like a queen. Latina women are one of the few women who are beginning to notice this (at least in LA). Asian guys are very humble when it comes to dating (esp. interracial relationships). They are very sensitive with how women and society evaluates and prejudges his identity, manhood, etc.
There are many things we young Asian men go through in this society that other men don't have to deal with. It is like we have a burden on our shoulders. We always feel like we have to prove ourselves 10x more than what other men would have to or need to do. With young LF (not all), I noticed that AM can just be themselves and still be loved most dearly.
True that there are some Latina women who are into "the chase" and go after guys with looks and sex appeal. They might not consider Asian guys for that category and see them as boring and not masculine enough. But, I know way more Latinas who are too all familiar with players and would more than happy go with AM who will be with them until the last day.
To all their own choices.
AM go through a lot in romances and perceptions by others, so please try to understand them...
Friday, June 14, 2002 at 21:18:10 (PDT)
LiL angel,
Please stay course and disregard those locos and pendejos. They don't know what love is, but just too curious and fearful of it. They are here to throw mud and that's ...........can't even or don't even want to mention what goes on in their minds.
Those Asian guys who diss Rican chicks only have this perception that those girls are blacks or mulattas and that they never give Asian guys the time of day. I know none of it is true. There are many Puerto Ricans who look just like Mexicans (yes, with the indigenous features and admixture). Not all Ricans have black blood. And, there are some Mexicans who might have black blood as well. Anyways, it just gives us Asians the ugly impression that we are chronically racist against blacks and African Negroid features. It wouldn't be kind and educated to think like that. It even makes us appear to be jealous of blacks in some ways.
Now, lately I have seen and read some Latinas here who are trying to hijack the love that does go on between AM and LF. They are most likely not LF, but LM who trying to make AM look bad. It is the same story of Latino guys going to police their own women. At least the ones here only try to make Asian guys look bad, but in real life, I have known many who really want to use force in order to break up someone else's true and real love if their skin colors are different. Sorry to say, but many Latino guys do go to this extent. By doing that, you guys only make the Latinas go into the "hands" of the chinos more and more. Check yourself before you do others.
Let me tell them that it ain't gonna work.
Most people love don't even post their stories on the Internet. Yes, there are millions of LF and AM out there in this world making love this very minute. Ain't nobody gonna stop them. It is all from God and how we feel.
You are not going to stop people from loving each other and making babies, no matter if they are brown, yellow, white, red, black, green, blue, etc.
Just accept it and try to see the beauty of it.
Thank God I live in the USA. People all mix here freely whether you like it or not.
AM and LF love is growing and here to stay whether you like it or not
Friday, June 14, 2002 at 21:01:08 (PDT)
Katalina, among others,
The Asian guys here may not be familiar with the term, but "Chinitos" is not something meant to be a compliment. If you are here to promote friendship/romance with Asian people, that term is too offensive and contradictory to be here. I know what it means. If any of you said it to me on the streets, the conversation wouldn't be as civil. It is just like calling blacks: "Mayates." But, we are all here to learn from each other. And, name calling or trying to find cold humor is just sad and pitiful.
Anyways,
I am not here to talk about love with Latinas. I am here to talk about the incessant and obsessive jealousy that Latino guys have when one of their own females (esp. if she is attractive and clear-featured) is dating outside their culture.
I once worked at this office and chatted with this Latino girl for quite while. All pretty innocent and not trying to hit on her or anything like that.
Another thing, is that this other Mexican guy was already dating someone else himself. He did not love the chick I was talking with, but just had to come in and sabotage whatever "mix" was going on between me and her. It was all in his f***ed up head. That guy was college educated, but didn't sure act like one. If I really was going after that girl, I wouldn't mind what he did. I'd challenge him on the streets of East L.A. or any barrio he comes from. If I love that girl, I'd even die for her. She felt awkward about the situation and said that all Latino guys have a very selfish and obsessed mindset. I find it borderline pathological and sexually-deviant/violent. If I was already dating someone, I wouldn't care the less if I saw an Asian girl in the street with a white or black guy. If the man can provide for her and give her true love, then I am happy for them. I don't own my Asian sisters and vice versa. They are free to find their own love.
I once took home a Chicana girl home after a date, and some of those guys in her neighborhood would look at me coldly like I committed a crime or something. You could see in their eyes how much they wanted to come down and jump the living cr.ap out of me. I don't back down. If I love the girl, it is forever. You know what I am saying esse? They all need to kick back and chill.
You see, the difference between us Asian guys and Mexican guys is that we don't see it as just "a game." We have more respect for our women. For us, they are not just another piece of meat.
Those Mexican guys are jealous, and I am telling you the truth. They go to the lowest level and to any extent in order to get a chokehold and control on their own women. So pathetic that some are doing it to break up someone who they don't even love, but do it because she is with a "Chinito." Even if the Chinito loves her with all his heart and can give her a better life, it don't matter. For these guys, these girls only belong with "la raza."
Mexican and Latina girls deserve better than that. I know many are tired of the Corona and Budweiser cans stacked all over the home. These beautiful women are queens who need to be with "real men" who can take care of them and give them the love and attention that they deserve. That is why many of them are dating out their race now.
I am sorry if some educated people here thought my language too strong, but I know some of you (not all) can only understand this type of language and manner of talk.
~*LET LOVE FLOW*~
Chinitos are down for their women
Friday, June 14, 2002 at 20:44:23 (PDT)
Katarina is wrong. I have seen some Chinese Men that are attractive. They are not womanizers and they treat women well. It is wrong to say all of them are bad. She is discrimminating.There are bad people in every race. Katarina sounds like an angry person.
Lupita
Friday, June 14, 2002 at 13:11:21 (PDT)
"I am getting the perception that most chinese men are womanizers. That "machisimo" you all keep bringing up."
just because of that, i suspec you're a troll who's not latin or hispanic. "machisimo" has nothing to do with womanizing, if you're latin/hispanic then you'd know what i meant by machisimo.
"Its all about that stuck up attitude many AM have...My true heart will always be with Chicanos no matter what."
don't let us stop you from living inside your little shell. this is the sound of life passing you by on the interstate, don't come out to play with everybody else because you'll end up roadkill.
"I am not at all attracted to Chinitos...Chinitos tend to be more materialistic and into the media, too...superficial."
hey! we're in agreement, i feel the same way about you as an individual and wonder why you bother to travel if you're so conceited like that? but, as long we feel the same about each other, then we're all one big happy family of humanity.
villageidiot
Friday, June 14, 2002 at 11:36:08 (PDT)
villageidiot/
It doesn't matter sweetie. You are still and always will be my Papi Chulo :)
ARACELI
Friday, June 14, 2002 at 10:39:53 (PDT)
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