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ASIAN MALE/ LATINA RELATIONSHIPS
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would any of you latinas like to get together? I live in San Diego.
I have a huge attraction to latinas. I want to fufill a dream I have. I am married. But! I have always still had this fantasy of being with a wild latina. I know there has to be some guys that feel the way I do. Latinas are HOT!
Brent
Wednesday, June 19, 2002 at 01:31:17 (PDT)
I personally don't know why so many Asian females can lose out on such wonderful men? If many Asian men are really so much into us Latinas, I know for sure that this type of interracial marriage will be the norm in the future. I myself am in one. Latina women are really so curious into you Asian boys. I find it so easy to communicate with Asian guys. They are so honest. Particularly in California where so many of them are fast becoming the majority groups in that state.
one woman's loss is a gain for another one
Tuesday, June 18, 2002 at 22:33:22 (PDT)
I had a lot of sexual tension before I met her.
I'd used to think why society always had to put down the Asian Man? Why the Asian Man couldn't get any love like everyone else? So, I once thought that if I made it rich, all those beautiful women would flock to me.
Thinking back, it was all in my naive and psychotic mind.
I finally opened a computer retail store of my dreams. I hired 6 workers, all of them beautiful Latina women. Yes, I "hit" on all of them. But, there was one who actually did go out with me.
I had really acted like an as#hole the second time we went out. I thought she was either drunk or she did it to seek advancement at work. But, it was very beautiful how we made out that day. Other women would not have taken it, I know.
After that, I never looked her in the eye nor told her I loved her as I still thought it was only a game at that time. I thought she would be cool about it and I had planned to raise her salary.
Later my business soon got broke. The other 5 girls (workers) left me like flies. I thought this other one would too. I was wrong. Anyways, I still gave her 5 months salary compensation, while I only gave 3 to the others.
I never told my family in San Francisco of my business failures, so they didn't wire me money. I was kicked out of the apartment and had nowhere else to stay. I really didn't want to ask her for anything, but I just called her to tell her that I might be leaving back to S.F soon and that I had really appreciate having her as a worker and that I regret that I didn't have the opportunity to make her a manager.
She was crying and asked how I felt for her? I told her that I was sorry that my business didn't turn out the way it should. I told her that I have no more money to compensate her as I have wished. She cried again and said I didn't understand her. She asked me if I had ever loved her? I paused......and admitted that yes I did.
I had got to see the true beauty in her all those months we worked together, but I never thought she would have liked me. I thought it was just a one-night stand type of thing and everything else was strictly business.
I told her that I might have to sleep the streets a couple days paying off the office rent, before catching the next available train up to San Francisco. She asked me if I could go over to her place? I was happy and I told her that I would pay her back. She said that I am free to stay not having to pay her rent. I didn't know how to thank her. I went to her home and she gave me back all the 5 month salary compensation. She said she does not need it at this time yet and she told me to use it.
I sat down with a defeated look...
I asked her why she was so good to me? I told her that I am without money now. I am just a broke little Chinese guy with no home to stay. Tears were coming down her eyes again and she chokingly said: "It is because of one word. LOVE."
She had fallen in love with me.
I never expected it, because I never had any in my life. My family, the girls I met, not one of them were loving. I thought it was a joke, because I assumed I knew women too much. What can a penniless Chinese man offer her?
It was too much of a shock for me to believe...
I didn't know what to tell her...and I certainly did not or could not cry myself.
I asked her if she had loved me the first time she came to work for me? She said the night we made love together was the time when she felt that she wanted that man (me) as her one and only true lover. Even when I am broke now, she still had those feelings for me. She said she has seen many men growing up as a child, and there was something in me that got into her.
I have now stayed in this lady's home for a year now. I got a job with a consulting firm and make good money. I have enough to buy my own home. But, there is nothing and no one who can remove me from her and our newly born little daughter.
I plan to give her the ring next month.
Experience in my life that I will never trade away
Tuesday, June 18, 2002 at 18:42:39 (PDT)
"A man who is TRULY macho will look out for and take responsibility for the well being of his family, sacrificing his own needs and working real hard to provide for his loved ones."
just like the like PBS series 'mi familia.' *sniff* what i understand is that "machisimo" has to do with the above, but since the hardships of many latin-american countries mean that a man has to also protect his family, "machisimo" has violence connotations. but for the most part being a man means what you've said.
see, another thing asians and latins have in common! :D
villageidiot
Tuesday, June 18, 2002 at 16:52:41 (PDT)
LA Woman,
Aren't alot of Mexican women marrying Anglo men? My half Mexican friends tell me that their Mexican mother's tell them to avoid dating a Mexican man/woman. Something to do with teenage pregnancy.
One of them likes Asian girls but Asian girls don't like him cuz they think he's a "typical Mexican guy"... even though he's only half.
*LOL* I told him, "too bad you're not half Asian like me." Anyway, he doesn't know much about Asian people or culture. Quite the ignoramus in that department. :( He just wants to f**k!
Jay... the hapa who's heard some
Tuesday, June 18, 2002 at 16:49:35 (PDT)
"what sort of name is that?"
wonder boy.
My name is a pueblo zuni name. I am from New Mexico :)
My pa is mexican and my ma is indian
(((((the best of 2 worlds!))))
My husband is an asian man. Our children will have the best of 3 worlds.
Tiwa
Tuesday, June 18, 2002 at 13:20:22 (PDT)
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