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ASIAN MALE/ LATINA RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Wednesday, Jan 22, 2025, 06:39:10 AM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most attracts you to Latinas?
Their facial features | 70%
Their physique | 16%
Their attitude and personality | 11%
Their education and cultural values | 3%

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Latinas?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 11%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 74%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family and friends. | 15%
Assuming you are a Latina, which of the following most attracts you to Asian males?
Their facial features | 71%
Their physique | 6%
Their attitude and personality | 17%
Their education & cultural values | 6%

Assuming you are a Latina, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 10%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 74%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 16%




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Turica,

When it comes to dating and the race factor it is not the wrapping on the outside but the gift inside.

HF    Saturday, June 29, 2002 at 22:07:51 (PDT)
LA Woman,

Yes, I am thinking of it. But, I don't really know if the girl herself maybe a Santerist?

It is really like playing with fire.
Scared, but wants to know the girl    Saturday, June 29, 2002 at 20:29:43 (PDT)
LoveLyFlora and Nena,

If any of you know any info. about Santeria, would you care to share some of it with us?

Santeria is listed as a religion, although some Western scholars list it as a cult.

There are many sites on the Web explaining the nature, worship and rituals of this religion.

However, most Santerists will not explain the true beliefs and nature of the religion to outsiders unless they are one of them.
Jeff    Saturday, June 29, 2002 at 20:11:43 (PDT)
celosa,

I don't understand why you would get upset. It is good to have a hot man that women are attracted to. But then again, his bragging could be lies. Maybe hes just trying to get a rise out of you. Like you said, he says "oh you look so cute when your mad" sounds like hes doing it on purpose honey.

Don't fret though. Makeup sex is the very very Best!!! :P
FunGirl HottSexxYY    Saturday, June 29, 2002 at 17:48:58 (PDT)
good luck, and tiwa,

I want to tell this man the way I feel. I think it will not work out for us. My family does not like marrying outside of our heritage. It is against family tradition. I would be disown by them. That would be so terrible for me. Could you imagine how terrible it could be for me?

los ojos azules, Juliana    Saturday, June 29, 2002 at 07:06:01 (PDT)
Even though I know it is wrong, I know that we had "clicked" in our conversation yesterday evening.

I am a business partner with my uncles in this tutoring firm and I am the one responsible for the preliminary interviews.

The girl was shy so I said it was OK if I did it (the interview) at her home one on one.

The moment I saw her, she blew my mind off. She was a Chicana, not so tall but with very good features. I wouldn't say she is a model type, but she just had a very pretty, comforting and friendly look to her.

But, boy, the conversation between me and her just hit off. Instead of the expected one hour of interview, it turned out to be a 3 hour conversation!!! We had the same views on life, friends, society, relationships. We talked about our own family. We talked about Mexico, of how the Mayans and Chinese may have a connection. The fact that there once existed Chinese railway migrants in Mexico. She enjoyed what I said and I enjoyed what she said too. I mentioned that my family owned a restaurant and mentioned to her that I would like to treat her out someday and she sounded excited at the possibility.

I want to ask her out very soon, but don't want to do it too fast to appear desperate. Maybe a week's wait?

I see it in her. This is the kind of girl I have been waiting and wanting all along. I forced myself to date Chinese girls in the past, but it never worked.
I hope it works out with this girl I met yesterday. I think she already knows how I feel and I told her that it was God's blessing to acquaint with such a good person and friend. She knows that I want to get to know more of her.

But, is it right due to our prior business transaction? With or without the job, I will still pursue her.

YOU CAN'T QUIT OR GIVE UP ON LOVE!!!
Got to go with the chances    Friday, June 28, 2002 at 23:58:38 (PDT)
To all who knows about the Santeria,

The girl and her elder sister told me that they have been living in the US with this uncle for about 2 years. Her own father died 4 years ago in Mexico and when she talked about it with me, she almost got emotional.

Her elder sister was different. She was a very calm person.

I have not met her mother nor her uncle. I would dread seeing her uncle eye to eye someday.

Her elder sister offered me a drink at the house, but I politely refused it.

I do have a feeling that perhaps these 2 girls don't like being around that home a lot.

But, then again, I don't know the girl that much yet. What if she is herself from this religion?

I am really scared that they can control my fate and destiny if something goes wrong.

But, the girl that I like doesn't seem to be evil looking or strange.

I DON'T KNOW!!!

Is it even worth it to pick up the phone and call her up again?

One time I called her and she did not want me to go to her home.

I have heard some things about this religion in the past. There was once a killing of 11 people near the Arizona/Mexico border. Police say it was drug related, but locals at first claimed it was because the people killed were Santerists. And, they claim it was a human sacrifice ritual. I don't know who or what to believe on this???

Then, last year in the LA Times, I read a section where Santeria priests would help young female believers "cure and solve" family problems by engaging in sexual intercourse with them. This is claimed to "drive out" the demons within their family.

If the girl really wants to be with me and get out of that home, then I will try to do it for her.

But, what if it is not like that? What if she is a sorceress herself?

Kinda scared to take another step right now...
Scared, but I want to know the girl too    Friday, June 28, 2002 at 20:01:19 (PDT)
in response to this message:

"Its not what you say! Witchcraft and everything! hahahaa! That make me want to laugh!" LovelyFlora

Yea right. That stuff is not funny and nothing to be playing with. You can laugh all you want to. But its still dangerous. I agree with LA Woman and the bible.

lil suzi    Friday, June 28, 2002 at 10:51:06 (PDT)

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